1. Be patient to your partner; avoid putting your lover on tension to do something which he/she is not ready to do. Let everything come automatically in the right time. No need to rush.
2. Always spare time for your lover; cease telling your spouse all the time that you are busy. When will you have time for he or her? Recall in the past you had time to corn her, to call or text him but now why can’t you? Come on try to fix time for your dude or babe, meet and have fun and some good memorable moments.
3. Be an understanding partner; Try to believe what your lover tells you that he failed to get credit to call on you try to understand it. He’s also a human being like you. If she tells you that by the time you called her she was asleep, try to understand it. She also get tired and she needs to rest like any other person.
4. Always forgive and forget; avoid bringing back the old things your lover did to you in the past every time you get a tiff.
5. Be caring; with the care i don’t mean you go borrow money from the bank and friends and buy for your partner costly things, to make him or her in expensive hotels… I mean doing the little things that suit in your wallet. Trust of if your love is well rised and understanding he/she will love and appreciate and love you that way.
6. Maintain the communication with your lover; try keeping in touch with your partner, call or text him or her, don’t allow your babe or dude start missing you. Be closer in any possible way.
7. Be faithful and trustworthy to your dude or babe; i know you may distant from your partner, then you start doubting him or her that maybe he/she is cheating on you or busy with someone else because he/she no longer does this and that hence you also start flirting and sleeping around with different people which isn’t good at all. Fight those false thoughts so that they don’t take you off track. Trust in your partner, if you really love him or her and be faithful.
8. Avoid listening to rumors; there rumors are spread by people who don’t have what to do, they keep gathering false info and then they spread it to you, the majority of them have the intentions which aren’t good. Some are interested in your lover, they admire the way he/she cares and love you. So they build up fake stories just to make you hate and dump your partner and in turn they replace you. Watch out for them.
9. Avoid being nagging all the time; stop accusing your lover falsely all the time just because you want him/her to be guilty, you well know that your partner wasn’t involved in something but you’re constantly pinning him/her. why? Stop your games of complaining all the time over small thing just because you want your lover attention and to be the controller. Such act may make your partner start losing the love they had for you hence paving a way for a break up.
10. Don’t be dependant on your partner; try contributing in some things, Seriously stop being a parasite to your guy, share the bills together and have a say in some things since you’re also part of the relationship. Don’t make your partner to be the controller and the decision maker of the relationship.
11. Be honest to your lover; Avoid lying and fooling your partner, lies won’t get you any prize, stick on the truth no matter it’s hurting sometimes.
12. Respect your lover; if he is a man or if she’s a woman of your life then why disrespecting him or her? Don’t back at your partner, say attention to what he or she says, don’t undervalue him/her, be a listening mate and do what your lover wants.
13. Give your man or woman some privacy; Avoid checking each an everything of his or hers, give your lover some space and freedom, try to have some trust in your partner no matter you don’t stay together, don’t touch your makes phone. Seriously you found your lover. With friends he/she has to keep in touch with them. They are not his girlfriends or boyfriends. Your girl is beautiful type, she has guy that try to corn her but she don’t love them and she can’t sleep with any. It’s you that she choose out of a million men that approach her. She loves you.
14. Stop bringing back the past; i know your partner jazzed you about his or her past experiences in love which weren’t so good. But stop rerating everything he/she does today to his or her past. Let it not be a daily song or a weapon to use to silent your dude or babe all the time. Seriously your partner jazzed you about it because he/she loves you so much no needed you to know him or her very well. Always mean it when you tells your partner that you loves him or her; Don’t just say the word just because you want your mate to feel good, let it be from the heart and accompany it with actions that will make your dude or babe believe it that you truly adore him or her.