»»»»It comes in so many hues and ways that its almost impossible to predict the type of love you’d experience until you actually experience it. But as confusing, happy or even painful as it may seem, love is still something we all look forward to experience.
Througout your life, you’ll find yourself in many circumstances of love, and almost all the time, you’d find yourself experiencing one of there ten types of love. And eventually, you will experience all these ten types of love
if you choose to. Without really getting into theories and style of love that can just end up compliciting your mind, let’s talk about real life and the experiences you’d feel in your own life.
Read these ten types of love and he there are some types that you haven’t experienced yet, dont worry, it’s just around the corner. And if you think a few types of love mentioned here aren’t really the kind of love your ”MAMA” told you about, think it’s truly an experience of Love!
1.) PLATONIC LOVE.
Platonic love is the simplest of all types. There are no stings attached and no sexual intentions either. It’s pure, friendly and something we experience from a very young age when we still don’t know why we have the thing we have inside our underwear.
The kind of relationships you share with siblings. Close childhood friends and even a few grown up friends can fall right here. Do you remember the first time you missed a friend?
That was probably your first PLATONIC LOVE MOMENT.
2.) LIMERANCE AND CRUSHES.
Ever had a crush on someone? Of course you have! The first crush is a memorable experience, one that’s filled with confusing :-). Jolts in the stomach. Sudden urges to throw up and a stupid sense of grining satisfication each time you see your crush.
It’s beautiful experience even if it did feel like your life depended on it at that time Limerence, on the other hand, is rather close to a crush but much more intense and “WEIRD” have you ever liked someone madly,
but didn’t ever want to express your love for them, like a school teacher or an actor, or even a crush?
Sometimes, you may have an intense infatuation for someone, but yet you wouldn’t want to spoil the happy thoughts by doing anything about it. Ever been there?
3.) UNREQUITED LOVE.
Unrequited love is a love filed with heart breaks and one that almost all of us have experienced.
It’s the dreaded one sided love, where you like someone and you know that person will never like you back.
They may be in a relationship, or they may just use you. You find yourself falling more in love with each passing day; even though you know you’ll never get any happiness out of the type of love that gives love a bad name.
But you know what, it also helps you understand the real value of reciprocal love.
4.) OBSESSIVE LOVE.
Are you an obsessive lover or someone who’s addicted to their partner? Do you feel help less and lonely without that special someone in your arm?
Are you sure you’re not bordering on being clingy? If you’ve ever been, there’s a good chance you’ve sucked the life out of you partner and pissed them off until they eventually left you on the crub.
Obsessive love is usually experienced by the novices who experience love for the first time, probably after having to deal with the scary unrequited love.
Obsessive lovers are sacred, insecure, and obviously obsessive about the relationship. Now you may have been one or may have deted someone like this.
It’s a stage all of up experience when we’re afraid of losing someone we love. But if you or your partner has a security issue, really, there’s no hope for a happy ending here.
5.) SELFISH LOVE.
Selfish love is smart. And though it involves two people to create that relationship, selfish loves also involves two people who are in love with one person.
Your partner loves you. Selfish love is a narcisstic love where you don’t care about your partner happiness.
You only care about yourself. If you ever find yourself getting into relationship just for the heck of it without really falling in love with other person.
Chances are, you’re a selfish lover. Selfish lovers are clever, scheming foxes who only get into relationship to see what hugey can get out of it. Ever dated someone just to apper cooler or achieve something for personal gains?
if you have, trick the selfish lover off the list. If you haven’t, wait and watch yourself use someone at some point in your life. Don’t worry, it’ll eventually happen.
6.) AWWW LOVE.
Awww’ that’s so cute. This type of love is the most spontaneous and yet, the one you will forget the soonert. It lasts for a few seconds, sometimes even less and some other times, a lot longes;
Do you love cats, dogs, goats, any animals at all?
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