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1. Be patient to your partner; avoid putting your lover on tension to do something which he/she is not ready to do. Let everything come automatically in the right time. No need to rush.

2. Always spare time for your lover; cease telling your spouse all the time that you are busy. When will you have time for he or her? Recall in the past you had time to corn her, to call or text him but now why can’t you? Come on try to fix time for your dude or babe, meet and have fun and some good memorable moments.

3. Be an understanding partner; Try to believe what your lover tells you that he failed to get credit to call on you try to understand it. He’s also a human being like you. If she tells you that by the time you called her she was asleep, try to understand it. She also get tired and she needs to rest like any other person.

4. Always forgive and forget; avoid bringing back the old things your lover did to you in the past every time you get a tiff.

5. Be caring; with the care i don’t mean you go borrow money from the bank and friends and buy for your partner costly things, to make him or her in expensive hotels… I mean doing the little things that suit in your wallet. Trust of if your love is well rised and understanding he/she will love and appreciate and love you that way.

6. Maintain the communication with your lover; try keeping in touch with your partner, call or text him or her, don’t allow your babe or dude start missing you. Be closer in any possible way.

7. Be faithful and trustworthy to your dude or babe; i know you may distant from your partner, then you start doubting him or her that maybe he/she is cheating on you or busy with someone else because he/she no longer does this and that hence you also start flirting and sleeping around with different people which isn’t good at all. Fight those false thoughts so that they don’t take you off track. Trust in your partner, if you really love him or her and be faithful.

8. Avoid listening to rumors; there rumors are spread by people who don’t have what to do, they keep gathering false info and then they spread it to you, the majority of them have the intentions which aren’t good. Some are interested in your lover, they admire the way he/she cares and love you. So they build up fake stories just to make you hate and dump your partner and in turn they replace you. Watch out for them.

9. Avoid being nagging all the time; stop accusing your lover falsely all the time just because you want him/her to be guilty, you well know that your partner wasn’t involved in something but you’re constantly pinning him/her. why? Stop your games of complaining all the time over small thing just because you want your lover attention and to be the controller. Such act may make your partner start losing the love they had for you hence paving a way for a break up.

10. Don’t be dependant on your partner; try contributing in some things, Seriously stop being a parasite to your guy, share the bills together and have a say in some things since you’re also part of the relationship. Don’t make your partner to be the controller and the decision maker of the relationship.

11. Be honest to your lover; Avoid lying and fooling your partner, lies won’t get you any prize, stick on the truth no matter it’s hurting sometimes.

12. Respect your lover; if he is a man or if she’s a woman of your life then why disrespecting him or her? Don’t back at your partner, say attention to what he or she says, don’t undervalue him/her, be a listening mate and do what your lover wants.

13. Give your man or woman some privacy; Avoid checking each an everything of his or hers, give your lover some space and freedom, try to have some trust in your partner no matter you don’t stay together, don’t touch your makes phone. Seriously you found your lover. With friends he/she has to keep in touch with them. They are not his girlfriends or boyfriends. Your girl is beautiful type, she has guy that try to corn her but she don’t love them and she can’t sleep with any. It’s you that she choose out of a million men that approach her. She loves you.

14. Stop bringing back the past; i know your partner jazzed you about his or her past experiences in love which weren’t so good. But stop rerating everything he/she does today to his or her past. Let it not be a daily song or a weapon to use to silent your dude or babe all the time. Seriously your partner jazzed you about it because he/she loves you so much no needed you to know him or her very well. Always mean it when you tells your partner that you loves him or her; Don’t just say the word just because you want your mate to feel good, let it be from the heart and accompany it with actions that will make your dude or babe believe it that you truly adore him or her.

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1. Be patient to your partner; avoid putting your lover on tension to do something which he/she is not ready to do. Let everything come automatically in the right time. No need to rush.

2. Always spare time for your lover; cease telling your spouse all the time that you are busy. When will you have time for he or her? Recall in the past you had time to corn her, to call or text him but now why can’t you? Come on try to fix time for your dude or babe, meet and have fun and some good memorable moments.

3. Be an understanding partner; Try to believe what your lover tells you that he failed to get credit to call on you try to understand it. He’s also a human being like you. If she tells you that by the time you called her she was asleep, try to understand it. She also get tired and she needs to rest like any other person.

4. Always forgive and forget; avoid bringing back the old things your lover did to you in the past every time you get a tiff.

5. Be caring; with the care i don’t mean you go borrow money from the bank and friends and buy for your partner costly things, to make him or her in expensive hotels… I mean doing the little things that suit in your wallet. Trust of if your love is well rised and understanding he/she will love and appreciate and love you that way.

6. Maintain the communication with your lover; try keeping in touch with your partner, call or text him or her, don’t allow your babe or dude start missing you. Be closer in any possible way.

7. Be faithful and trustworthy to your dude or babe; i know you may distant from your partner, then you start doubting him or her that maybe he/she is cheating on you or busy with someone else because he/she no longer does this and that hence you also start flirting and sleeping around with different people which isn’t good at all. Fight those false thoughts so that they don’t take you off track. Trust in your partner, if you really love him or her and be faithful.

8. Avoid listening to rumors; there rumors are spread by people who don’t have what to do, they keep gathering false info and then they spread it to you, the majority of them have the intentions which aren’t good. Some are interested in your lover, they admire the way he/she cares and love you. So they build up fake stories just to make you hate and dump your partner and in turn they replace you. Watch out for them.

9. Avoid being nagging all the time; stop accusing your lover falsely all the time just because you want him/her to be guilty, you well know that your partner wasn’t involved in something but you’re constantly pinning him/her. why? Stop your games of complaining all the time over small thing just because you want your lover attention and to be the controller. Such act may make your partner start losing the love they had for you hence paving a way for a break up.

10. Don’t be dependant on your partner; try contributing in some things, Seriously stop being a parasite to your guy, share the bills together and have a say in some things since you’re also part of the relationship. Don’t make your partner to be the controller and the decision maker of the relationship.

11. Be honest to your lover; Avoid lying and fooling your partner, lies won’t get you any prize, stick on the truth no matter it’s hurting sometimes.

12. Respect your lover; if he is a man or if she’s a woman of your life then why disrespecting him or her? Don’t back at your partner, say attention to what he or she says, don’t undervalue him/her, be a listening mate and do what your lover wants.

13. Give your man or woman some privacy; Avoid checking each an everything of his or hers, give your lover some space and freedom, try to have some trust in your partner no matter you don’t stay together, don’t touch your makes phone. Seriously you found your lover. With friends he/she has to keep in touch with them. They are not his girlfriends or boyfriends. Your girl is beautiful type, she has guy that try to corn her but she don’t love them and she can’t sleep with any. It’s you that she choose out of a million men that approach her. She loves you.

14. Stop bringing back the past; i know your partner jazzed you about his or her past experiences in love which weren’t so good. But stop rerating everything he/she does today to his or her past. Let it not be a daily song or a weapon to use to silent your dude or babe all the time. Seriously your partner jazzed you about it because he/she loves you so much no needed you to know him or her very well. Always mean it when you tells your partner that you loves him or her; Don’t just say the word just because you want your mate to feel good, let it be from the heart and accompany it with actions that will make your dude or babe believe it that you truly adore him or her.

1. Be patient to your partner; avoid putting your lover on tension to do something which he/she is not ready to do. Let everything come automatically in the right time. No need to rush.

2. Always spare time for your lover; cease telling your spouse all the time that you are busy. When will you have time for he or her? Recall in the past you had time to corn her, to call or text him but now why can’t you? Come on try to fix time for your dude or babe, meet and have fun and some good memorable moments.

3. Be an understanding partner; Try to believe what your lover tells you that he failed to get credit to call on you try to understand it. He’s also a human being like you. If she tells you that by the time you called her she was asleep, try to understand it. She also get tired and she needs to rest like any other person.

4. Always forgive and forget; avoid bringing back the old things your lover did to you in the past every time you get a tiff.

5. Be caring; with the care i don’t mean you go borrow money from the bank and friends and buy for your partner costly things, to make him or her in expensive hotels… I mean doing the little things that suit in your wallet. Trust of if your love is well rised and understanding he/she will love and appreciate and love you that way.

6. Maintain the communication with your lover; try keeping in touch with your partner, call or text him or her, don’t allow your babe or dude start missing you. Be closer in any possible way.

7. Be faithful and trustworthy to your dude or babe; i know you may distant from your partner, then you start doubting him or her that maybe he/she is cheating on you or busy with someone else because he/she no longer does this and that hence you also start flirting and sleeping around with different people which isn’t good at all. Fight those false thoughts so that they don’t take you off track. Trust in your partner, if you really love him or her and be faithful.

8. Avoid listening to rumors; there rumors are spread by people who don’t have what to do, they keep gathering false info and then they spread it to you, the majority of them have the intentions which aren’t good. Some are interested in your lover, they admire the way he/she cares and love you. So they build up fake stories just to make you hate and dump your partner and in turn they replace you. Watch out for them.

9. Avoid being nagging all the time; stop accusing your lover falsely all the time just because you want him/her to be guilty, you well know that your partner wasn’t involved in something but you’re constantly pinning him/her. why? Stop your games of complaining all the time over small thing just because you want your lover attention and to be the controller. Such act may make your partner start losing the love they had for you hence paving a way for a break up.

10. Don’t be dependant on your partner; try contributing in some things, Seriously stop being a parasite to your guy, share the bills together and have a say in some things since you’re also part of the relationship. Don’t make your partner to be the controller and the decision maker of the relationship.

11. Be honest to your lover; Avoid lying and fooling your partner, lies won’t get you any prize, stick on the truth no matter it’s hurting sometimes.

12. Respect your lover; if he is a man or if she’s a woman of your life then why disrespecting him or her? Don’t back at your partner, say attention to what he or she says, don’t undervalue him/her, be a listening mate and do what your lover wants.

13. Give your man or woman some privacy; Avoid checking each an everything of his or hers, give your lover some space and freedom, try to have some trust in your partner no matter you don’t stay together, don’t touch your makes phone. Seriously you found your lover. With friends he/she has to keep in touch with them. They are not his girlfriends or boyfriends. Your girl is beautiful type, she has guy that try to corn her but she don’t love them and she can’t sleep with any. It’s you that she choose out of a million men that approach her. She loves you.

14. Stop bringing back the past; i know your partner jazzed you about his or her past experiences in love which weren’t so good. But stop rerating everything he/she does today to his or her past. Let it not be a daily song or a weapon to use to silent your dude or babe all the time. Seriously your partner jazzed you about it because he/she loves you so much no needed you to know him or her very well. Always mean it when you tells your partner that you loves him or her; Don’t just say the word just because you want your mate to feel good, let it be from the heart and accompany it with actions that will make your dude or babe believe it that you truly adore him or her.

1. Be patient to your partner; avoid putting your lover on tension to do something which he/she is not ready to do. Let everything come automatically in the right time. No need to rush.

2. Always spare time for your lover; cease telling your spouse all the time that you are busy. When will you have time for he or her? Recall in the past you had time to corn her, to call or text him but now why can’t you? Come on try to fix time for your dude or babe, meet and have fun and some good memorable moments.

3. Be an understanding partner; Try to believe what your lover tells you that he failed to get credit to call on you try to understand it. He’s also a human being like you. If she tells you that by the time you called her she was asleep, try to understand it. She also get tired and she needs to rest like any other person.

4. Always forgive and forget; avoid bringing back the old things your lover did to you in the past every time you get a tiff.

5. Be caring; with the care i don’t mean you go borrow money from the bank and friends and buy for your partner costly things, to make him or her in expensive hotels… I mean doing the little things that suit in your wallet. Trust of if your love is well rised and understanding he/she will love and appreciate and love you that way.

6. Maintain the communication with your lover; try keeping in touch with your partner, call or text him or her, don’t allow your babe or dude start missing you. Be closer in any possible way.

7. Be faithful and trustworthy to your dude or babe; i know you may distant from your partner, then you start doubting him or her that maybe he/she is cheating on you or busy with someone else because he/she no longer does this and that hence you also start flirting and sleeping around with different people which isn’t good at all. Fight those false thoughts so that they don’t take you off track. Trust in your partner, if you really love him or her and be faithful.

8. Avoid listening to rumors; there rumors are spread by people who don’t have what to do, they keep gathering false info and then they spread it to you, the majority of them have the intentions which aren’t good. Some are interested in your lover, they admire the way he/she cares and love you. So they build up fake stories just to make you hate and dump your partner and in turn they replace you. Watch out for them.

9. Avoid being nagging all the time; stop accusing your lover falsely all the time just because you want him/her to be guilty, you well know that your partner wasn’t involved in something but you’re constantly pinning him/her. why? Stop your games of complaining all the time over small thing just because you want your lover attention and to be the controller. Such act may make your partner start losing the love they had for you hence paving a way for a break up.

10. Don’t be dependant on your partner; try contributing in some things, Seriously stop being a parasite to your guy, share the bills together and have a say in some things since you’re also part of the relationship. Don’t make your partner to be the controller and the decision maker of the relationship.

11. Be honest to your lover; Avoid lying and fooling your partner, lies won’t get you any prize, stick on the truth no matter it’s hurting sometimes.

12. Respect your lover; if he is a man or if she’s a woman of your life then why disrespecting him or her? Don’t back at your partner, say attention to what he or she says, don’t undervalue him/her, be a listening mate and do what your lover wants.

13. Give your man or woman some privacy; Avoid checking each an everything of his or hers, give your lover some space and freedom, try to have some trust in your partner no matter you don’t stay together, don’t touch your makes phone. Seriously you found your lover. With friends he/she has to keep in touch with them. They are not his girlfriends or boyfriends. Your girl is beautiful type, she has guy that try to corn her but she don’t love them and she can’t sleep with any. It’s you that she choose out of a million men that approach her. She loves you.

14. Stop bringing back the past; i know your partner jazzed you about his or her past experiences in love which weren’t so good. But stop rerating everything he/she does today to his or her past. Let it not be a daily song or a weapon to use to silent your dude or babe all the time. Seriously your partner jazzed you about it because he/she loves you so much no needed you to know him or her very well. Always mean it when you tells your partner that you loves him or her; Don’t just say the word just because you want your mate to feel good, let it be from the heart and accompany it with actions that will make your dude or babe believe it that you truly adore him or her.

ITS REALLY HURTS…

Its really hurts when some people suddenly change after getting what they wanted from you. Before getting it they can shower you with gifts, take you out, call and text you all the time, and comfort you just because they are targeting something. When it’s done, they pretend to be so sweet with sugar coated love, the next day they are not. One day they need you around them, the next day they are too busy for you. One day you are so important to them, the next day you are worthless. One day they love you, the next day they don’t care about you and they don’t wanna know how you are. That’s how ironic people and love can be, pretty lies wrapped up in glittering ribbons… Truly i just hate people who plays with our heart and even waste our precious time.

BY

COMRADE OMOADUA

WHEN A GIRL GIVE UP ON YOU…

WHEN A GIRL GIVE UP ON YOU…

*She will not try to catch your attention.
*She will not fight for you anymore.
*She won’t reply your message as quickly anymore.
*She will not care anymore.
*She no longer jealous.
*She will flirt and talk to other guys.
*She’s no longer care if you care or not anymore.
*She’s no longer goes to your profile and wine to people about happy you’re talking to other girls.
*She will give up on trying making you love her, because she finaly realize that she deserve better. -and you will miss her. Miss the way she cared about you. Miss the way she loved you. And you have lost her. So don’t take any girls for granted, if you love her, let her know before she gives up!

BY
COMRADE OMOADUA

THIS IS CALLED SIN OF PRESUMPTION.

SIN OF PRESUMPTION.

A dog was so faithful that the woman could leave her baby with it and go
out to attend other matters.

She always returned to find the child soundly asleep with the dog faithfully watching over him.

One day something tragic
happened.
The woman as usual, left the baby in thehands of this faithful dog and went
out shopping. When she returned, she discovered rather a nasty scene, there was a total mess.

The babys cot was dismantled, his nappies & clothes torn
to shreds with blood stains all over the bedroom where she left the child & the dog. Shocked, the woman wailed as she began looking for the baby. All of a sudden, she saw the faithful dog emerging from under the bed.

It was covered with blood and licking its mouth as if it had just finished a
delicious meal.
The woman got angry and assumed that the dog had devoured her baby. Without
much thought she beat the dog with a wood to death.

But as she continued
searching for there mains of her child, she beheld another scene.

She beheld another scene Close to the bed was the baby who, although lying bare floor, was safe & under the bed where the body of a snake was torn to pieces in what had been a fierce battle between the snake and the dog which was now dead.

Then reality dawned on d woman who now began to understand what took place in
her absence. The dog fought to protect the baby from the ravenous snake.

It was too late for her now to make amends because in her impatience and anger,she had killed the faithful dog. How often have we misjudged people and torn them to shreds with harsh words and deeds before we have had time to evaluate the situation?.

This is called SIN OF PRESUMPTION, Presuming things our way without taking the trouble to find out exactly what the situation really is.
Little patience can drastically reduce major lifelong mistakes. Who Are You misjudging right now?

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IMPORTANT MESSAGE TO ALL LADIES.

1. Do not shave off your eyebrows only to redraw
them with a pencil… it makes no sense

2. Do not put on too much make up, you end up
looking like you came out of the make-up factory.

3. Do not wear a vest or sleeveless top without
shaving your armpits or without a bra
underneath

4. Do not leave chipped nail polish to wear off on
its own, there’s a reason why they sell nail polish
remover.

5. If you can’t afford good quality weaves, don’t
bother.

6. Do not do artificial nails that makes you look
like a drag queen, simple is always s*xy.

7. See-through leggings or a top used as a dress
when you are out in public is a hell-to-the-no!

8. Never do things for a man with a hope of
getting something in return, expectations are
dangerous. Do it because you simply want to.

9. Never contradict what your man says – in
public.

10. Never stalk the man that left you for the other
woman

11. Do not share your best friend’s personal life
with every Tom, Dick and Harry.

12. Women should never act on distress in
relationships like checking your man’s phone,
nagging him to death, and acting like a paranoid
freak. You will simply release him to someone
else by doing so.

13. Never dish out your entire family drama on a
first date. The guy just wants to know about you.

14. Stop obsessing over your body. It’s good to eat
healthy. and work out but let’s leave it at that.

15. Say No to wearing over accessories; stop
looking like a Christmas tree.

16. Never leave home without lip gloss, your
phone and most of all, your dignity.

17. Never leave your used sanitary towel in the
toilet for the next person to see. Women please!

18. Never wear very high heels if you can’t do the
Naomi Campbell walk. You look like a drunk
grasshopper.

19. Never wear short skirts and low cut tops
when off to an Interview. You will create the
wrong impression.

20. And finally, ‘Never wish to be like any other
woman. There are others out there envying you
for who you are’
.Be good. Be yourself. Be Nice. to omoadua…

BY
PRINCE OMOADUA

SIX GOLDEN TIPS FOR NEWLYWEDS RELATIONSHIPS.

Marriages are one heck of a roller coaster ride. We are sure all the married readers would agree to this.

For newlyweds, it is important to understand that once the excitement of the wedding and the honeymoon is over, there are a few things they need to keep in mind to make a strong foundation of their relationship. And, this ‘work towards the strong foundation’ has to be started from the very beginning. So, here are a few things that would help you to keep the stones of that strong foundation.

1. Accept each other’s weaknesses
Everyone dreams of finding a perfect life partner. One who is caring, sensitive, funny, charming and the list goes on and on. But you need to accept a simple fact that nobody is perfect, not even you! So instead of pinpointing your partner’s negative points or weaknesses, try to accept them. Do not try to change a person against their will. This might keep them from being open with you.

Relationship with your special someone is a space where you just want to be your true self without any pretenses.

2. Discuss your finances
A universal topic which usually causes huge fights and misunderstandings is that of ‘money’.

If not before marriage then immediately after it, a newly married couple should try to figure out a way to manage their finances together.

3. Divide your responsibilities
Nowadays, generally both the partners are working individuals. Both have to spend long working hours at their respective workplaces.

In such a case, it is not fair to the wife if she has to handle all the household chores alone. For a successful marriage, try to divide your responsibilities. For example, if the wife is taking care of the cooking, the husband can take care of the grocery shopping.

4. Resolve conflicts, don’t increase them
There is no conflict or misunderstanding which cannot be solved by decent communication.

Not discussing matters of conflict with each other can cause them to turn into huge fights. It is obvious that when two completely different people start a new life together, there will be matters of disagreement as the two keep discovering new things about the other. Sitting together and talking about these matters through peaceful communication will help you to resolve disagreement,
before they elevate into a fight.

5. Make time for each other
Another important thing is to always find time for one another no matter how busy each of you is.

Handling stress at work along with household chores can get difficult for some. But you need to make a conscious effort to take time out for one another so as not to let the romance fade away.

This is the best advice for those especially who have met through an arranged setup and are still discovering things about each other.

6. Set limits to family interference
For the safety of your own relation, set limits to this interference.

Always stand up for one another and do not let a third person see even a little crack in the relationship that you and your spouse share.

BY
PRINCE OMOADUA