A dog was so faithful that the woman could leave her baby with it and go
out to attend other matters.

She always returned to find the child soundly asleep with the dog faithfully watching over him.

One day something tragic
The woman as usual, left the baby in thehands of this faithful dog and went
out shopping. When she returned, she discovered rather a nasty scene, there was a total mess.

The babys cot was dismantled, his nappies & clothes torn
to shreds with blood stains all over the bedroom where she left the child & the dog. Shocked, the woman wailed as she began looking for the baby. All of a sudden, she saw the faithful dog emerging from under the bed.

It was covered with blood and licking its mouth as if it had just finished a
delicious meal.
The woman got angry and assumed that the dog had devoured her baby. Without
much thought she beat the dog with a wood to death.

But as she continued
searching for there mains of her child, she beheld another scene.

She beheld another scene Close to the bed was the baby who, although lying bare floor, was safe & under the bed where the body of a snake was torn to pieces in what had been a fierce battle between the snake and the dog which was now dead.

Then reality dawned on d woman who now began to understand what took place in
her absence. The dog fought to protect the baby from the ravenous snake.

It was too late for her now to make amends because in her impatience and anger,she had killed the faithful dog. How often have we misjudged people and torn them to shreds with harsh words and deeds before we have had time to evaluate the situation?.

This is called SIN OF PRESUMPTION, Presuming things our way without taking the trouble to find out exactly what the situation really is.
Little patience can drastically reduce major lifelong mistakes. Who Are You misjudging right now?


Dont think what you think others are thinking, Take time to get the whole truth.

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1. Do not shave off your eyebrows only to redraw
them with a pencil… it makes no sense

2. Do not put on too much make up, you end up
looking like you came out of the make-up factory.

3. Do not wear a vest or sleeveless top without
shaving your armpits or without a bra

4. Do not leave chipped nail polish to wear off on
its own, there’s a reason why they sell nail polish

5. If you can’t afford good quality weaves, don’t

6. Do not do artificial nails that makes you look
like a drag queen, simple is always s*xy.

7. See-through leggings or a top used as a dress
when you are out in public is a hell-to-the-no!

8. Never do things for a man with a hope of
getting something in return, expectations are
dangerous. Do it because you simply want to.

9. Never contradict what your man says – in

10. Never stalk the man that left you for the other

11. Do not share your best friend’s personal life
with every Tom, Dick and Harry.

12. Women should never act on distress in
relationships like checking your man’s phone,
nagging him to death, and acting like a paranoid
freak. You will simply release him to someone
else by doing so.

13. Never dish out your entire family drama on a
first date. The guy just wants to know about you.

14. Stop obsessing over your body. It’s good to eat
healthy. and work out but let’s leave it at that.

15. Say No to wearing over accessories; stop
looking like a Christmas tree.

16. Never leave home without lip gloss, your
phone and most of all, your dignity.

17. Never leave your used sanitary towel in the
toilet for the next person to see. Women please!

18. Never wear very high heels if you can’t do the
Naomi Campbell walk. You look like a drunk

19. Never wear short skirts and low cut tops
when off to an Interview. You will create the
wrong impression.

20. And finally, ‘Never wish to be like any other
woman. There are others out there envying you
for who you are’
.Be good. Be yourself. Be Nice. to omoadua…



Marriages are one heck of a roller coaster ride. We are sure all the married readers would agree to this.

For newlyweds, it is important to understand that once the excitement of the wedding and the honeymoon is over, there are a few things they need to keep in mind to make a strong foundation of their relationship. And, this ‘work towards the strong foundation’ has to be started from the very beginning. So, here are a few things that would help you to keep the stones of that strong foundation.

1. Accept each other’s weaknesses
Everyone dreams of finding a perfect life partner. One who is caring, sensitive, funny, charming and the list goes on and on. But you need to accept a simple fact that nobody is perfect, not even you! So instead of pinpointing your partner’s negative points or weaknesses, try to accept them. Do not try to change a person against their will. This might keep them from being open with you.

Relationship with your special someone is a space where you just want to be your true self without any pretenses.

2. Discuss your finances
A universal topic which usually causes huge fights and misunderstandings is that of ‘money’.

If not before marriage then immediately after it, a newly married couple should try to figure out a way to manage their finances together.

3. Divide your responsibilities
Nowadays, generally both the partners are working individuals. Both have to spend long working hours at their respective workplaces.

In such a case, it is not fair to the wife if she has to handle all the household chores alone. For a successful marriage, try to divide your responsibilities. For example, if the wife is taking care of the cooking, the husband can take care of the grocery shopping.

4. Resolve conflicts, don’t increase them
There is no conflict or misunderstanding which cannot be solved by decent communication.

Not discussing matters of conflict with each other can cause them to turn into huge fights. It is obvious that when two completely different people start a new life together, there will be matters of disagreement as the two keep discovering new things about the other. Sitting together and talking about these matters through peaceful communication will help you to resolve disagreement,
before they elevate into a fight.

5. Make time for each other
Another important thing is to always find time for one another no matter how busy each of you is.

Handling stress at work along with household chores can get difficult for some. But you need to make a conscious effort to take time out for one another so as not to let the romance fade away.

This is the best advice for those especially who have met through an arranged setup and are still discovering things about each other.

6. Set limits to family interference
For the safety of your own relation, set limits to this interference.

Always stand up for one another and do not let a third person see even a little crack in the relationship that you and your spouse share.



Never waste anyone’s time if you aren’t gonna love them forever. Don’t even date them because it’s of no pride you having a huge list of EX -boyfriends and girlfriends. It doesn’t even portray the man or a woman in you. Always speak your heart to someone, don’t keep that person around because you feel pity for him or her. If you’re busy loving someone else, utter it out rather than keeping that dude or babe around you as a secret close friend or a substitute. Find it hurts but also helps a lot. Stop fooling that innocent person who spares his/her time for you, who ignores all other chances of a beautiful laides and handsome men because he/she has hope in you. Think about it my friends and act accordingly.




12 You will read her text over and over again…
11 You will walk really really slow while you’re with him/her…
10. You will pretend to be shy whenever you’re with him/her…
9. While talking about him/her… Your heart will beat faster and faster.
8. By listening to his/her voice… You will smile for no reason.
7. While looking at him/her… You can’t see the other people around you… You can only see that person…
6. You will start listening to SLOW songs.
5. He/she becomes all you think about.
4. You’ll get high just by their smell…
3. You’ll realize that you’re always smiling to yourself when you think about him…
2. You’ll do anything for him or her…
1. While reading this, there was one person on your mind the whole time…




If you have got a girl who loves you the way you are, who doesn’t confronts you when you are sick or troubled and who encourages you when you’re about to give up… Just stick by her side, love her genuinely, be faithful to her and never think of cheating on her because such girls are rare to find there days.


1How to Get Any Boy to Fall in Love With You Let’s be
honest — there’s no way to guarantee that every boy
in the world will fall in love with you. However, there
are a number of things you can do to
get almost any boy to want to
get to know you and to be on
the way to falling head-over-
heels in love with you.

Are you
looking to hook a boy you’ve
had your eye on, or do you just
want to possess the qualities
that make any boy at all want to
capture your heart? If you want
to get any boy to fall in love
with you for any reason, just
follow these steps.
Steps Tips and Warnings
Be Your Best Self

1 Love how you look. If you want a boy to fall in love
with you, then it has to be love at first sight, right?
Wrong. If you want a boy to fall in love with you, he
has to grow to love all of you — the inside and out.
The outside is a great place to start. If you’re in love
with your looks and are proud of your appearance,
then the boy will be able to tell and will start to love
how you look,
too. Wear clothes that make
you feel pretty and comfortable. If you feel
uncomfortable or not like
your true self in unnaturally tight clothes, then it’ll
show. Love your body. You don’t have to meet an
unrealistic standard of beauty to love the way your
body looks,
and to appreciate it for its quirks. Take up a thirty-
minute exercise routine every day to feel healthier
both mentally and physically. If you’re proud of your
body, then the boy will be able to tell.
Be comfortable in your own skin. Don’t cover in a
room or hide in a dark corner; be the life of the
party and be proud to show off your looks.

2.Love what you do. Any boy
will be much more likely to fall
in love with you if you love what you do and feel
more positive about the things in your life. If you
make it known that you’re happy pursuing your
school work, or career, then
he’ll be more inclined to want to get to know you. If you’re in school, don’t complain
about your
classes and teachers. Instead, focus on the things you
do love and why they make you happy.
Love your extra-curricular
activities and interests. Don’t complain about soccer
practice; instead, talk about how excited you are for
Friday’s game. Who
wants to be around a person who doesn’t like
anything she’s doing by choice? Stay positive.
Whenever you talk about what you’re doing that
weekend or
what your day looked like,
say five positive things for every one negative thing.
It’s okay to complain once in a while, but if you
complain all the time, no
boy will want to fall in love with you.

3. Love who you are. Seriously — it’ll be almost
impossible to get a boy to fall in love with you if you
don’t love yourself. If you want a boy to fall in love
with you, then you have to love who you are and be
proud of the person you’re
becoming. Here’s how to do it but Understand your
strengths. Think of the top five things that m==ake you
remarkable — write them
down, if you have to. Then,
use them to your advantage. Make the most of your
good attributes by showing them off as much
as possible.
For example, if you know you have an amazing sense
of humor,
then flaunt it in front of your boy. Address your flaws.
Loving who you are doesn’t mean thinking you’re
flawless — in fact, if you’re aware of at least three
qualities you need to work on, then
you’ll only love yourself more as you try to improve
your problem areas.

4. Develop your confidence. As you work on loving
how you look, loving what you do, and loving who
you are, your confidence will sky rocket. If you’re
confident and
comfortable with yourself,
your boy will feel more confident about you as well.
To be confident, learn to speak clearly, stand up for
yourself, and be comfortable enough with yourself to
be able to laugh at your own
foibles. Remember that there’s a
difference between being
confident and being arrogant. If you end up bragging
about how great you are all the time, then
it’ll look like a major turn off.

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How to know a Man Is Serious about
We have found some ways that might
help you spot a man who is in for the
real deal and not just fun/fling.

1. He is interested in your life-If you tell
him about how nervous you are
concerning the next promotion at work
or the next big move in your career and
he calls you to check how it is going,
asking every step of the way how you
are feeling, then he is there for real.
Men who want something real don’t
hesitate to know everything going on in
your life.

2. He is never too busy to call-face it,
nobody is too busy to call someone
special. An “I called to say I miss you” call
won’t last more than a minute, so when
you truly care, you won’t be too busy to
call. A man who is never to busy to call
you and who calls back when he misses
your call or text is one who is serious
enough. You know why? Because men
know how seriously women take the
calls they put through to their man. They
know women get angry when a man
refuses to acknowledge their calls. So
when he calls back to say “I’m so sorry I
couldn’t reply your message or call at the
time…” Or makes it up to you? Then he
just might be for real.

3. He is willing to help- whenever you
need to get something done and you
discuss it with him, if his immediate/
automatic response is “so what are you
going to do?” Without him offering to
help in any way, then he just is not in it
for the long term. A man who is into you
and wants to start something serious
would try to find out how he can help
when you are in a fix. Not ask you
without being concerned what you
want to do. Men like to be men by
helping their women and easing their
stress. If he cares and is for real, he
would offer to help. As simple as that.

4. He is interested in your career-a man
who truly wants to be with you will be
concerned about your career and your
future plans. If he is serious baout your
future then it means he is serious about

5. He is proud of you-He takes you out
and flaunts you whenever he has the
chance. He does not leave you standing
by yourself while talking to his friends in
a party or an event, rather he stands by
you and lets everyone know who you
are to him.